No Excuses

Making Chanes spelled out in blocks
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Lately I’ve been feeling kind of like my progress is blah.  Nothing I do seems to be too meaningful and everything, even fun things just feel like additional tasks.  So I decided to step back and look at what we have going for us as retired folks.  And then look at our typical problems, and possible “no excuses” solutions.

What We Have Going For Us

More Time Than At Any Time In Life

We are supposedly at least partially retired (this article is being written for RetireReal after all!)  I will fully admit that time seems to fly.  Many times I remark to my wife “How can it be that late already?”  So we should at least have more time than we did when we were working.  Back then some boss or management dictated how you spent your time.

Now we have more control over how we spend our time.  So let’s manage it better and use our time for our priorities.

Some Money Maybe, And Ability To Find More

Hopefully you have at least some savings and some Social Security coming in.  And I’m well aware that circumstances may have made that savings much less than we wanted, or nothing at all!

But Social Security is something you didn’t get when you were younger, so it is a good base to start from.  Some of us will need to work in some capacity to fill in the gaps as best we can.  And that’s not all bad at all as studies show working helps your social connections and may even allow you to live longer.

In many parts of the world, and even in the US prior to the 1930s there was no retirement.  Most worked their whole lives, not that I’m saying that was a good thing!

In today’s world many people work and start and run businesses into their 70s, 80s and beyond.  I am inspired by all the older folks doing just that.

Some Wisdom

Hopefully as we get older we gain a little wisdom.  We may have made many mistakes but hopefully we have learned from them.  So we should in theory make a few less mistakes, waste less time, and generally be more efficient in how we do things.

We Have Minutes

Only God knows how long we will live.  But we hopefully have some more minutes so let’s make the most of them.

Common Problems And The No Excuses Way To Address Them!

Not Enough Money

Make some – Get a Part Time job.  Many businesses love hiring retired people, and many retired people actually enjoy the part time work.  Start a small business.  Many retired folks do!.  For little bits of money sell something that you no longer need.  Many of us have accumulated all kinds of “stuff” over the years.

Bored

Find hobbies.  There are hundreds of possibilities.  Do some research.  Many are free or low cost and some might even turn into another source of income.  Here are some articles to get you thinking:

Lonely

Join something.  For many of us our social connections revolved around work for most of our careers.  Making new friends can be daunting.  Try joining a club or volunteering with like minded people.  And a part time job can help.

Lack of Goals

For much of our careers some boss or manager set many of our goals.  Now it is time to set some of our own.  There is lots of good information out there on how to set and achieve goals.  Do some research and pick up a well reviewed book or two.

Lack of Skills

Learn some.  What a great time to learn new things.  The Internet has opened up so many opportunities.  Many are free.  Pick some classes or tutorials and get started.

Lack Of Time Left

Make the most of every minute.  What can you do in the next two minutes that will have some lasting effect?  Make a kind comment.  Read a good quote.  Write a thank you note.

I hope this article leaves you thinking.  If you think you need a little kick in the butt, give it to yourself!

Wishing you the best in your efforts!

Cool Old People

Marathon Runners
Marathon Runners

Lately I’ve been wondering if life is kind of over.  I am not really complaining (too much.) I had a successful career in banking and software that allowed me to adequately support my family, and I have a 43 year marriage.  I’ve been retired for a year or so.  While we all could wish for a little more money we’re doing ok.  I’m still a nerd at heart, so I mess around with programming and websites.  And I enjoy writing about a variety of topics.

However It does sometimes feel like life is kind of over as far as new things, adventure, and impact.

So, I decided to hit the Internet and try and find some really cool old people.  “Old” means different things to different people, so I won’t quibble over exact ages.  Here are some of the people I found:

Colonel Sanders

Most people have heard of this one.  He started Kentucky Fried Chicken at 65.  Its health benefits might be debated, but it sure tastes great!

Grandma Moses

She is a famous American folk artist, and she didn’t even start painting until the age of 78!

Laura Ingalls Wilder

She was in her 60s when she started writing the “Little House” books.

Duncan Hines

He started writing cooking books in his 50s, and in his 70s he started adding his name to several famous products (think Duncan Hines Cakes.)

Yuichiro Miura

He is known as the oldest person to climb Mt Everest at the age of 80!

Smokey Dawson

Never heard of this one but he was an Australian cowboy.  He composed and released his first album at 92!

Harriet Thompson

She was a cancer survivor who started running marathons at age 76, and then went on to complete her 15th marathon at the age of 91.

Mohr Keet

He became the world’s oldest bungee jumper at the age of 96.

Tom Allen

Never heard of this one either, but he is Britain’s oldest yoga instructor, at the age of 90.

Kittie Weston-Knauer

Kittie is the world’s oldest BMX racer.  She is still going strong at 71!

Wang Deshun

Wang Deshun is an in demand male fashion model.  At 80 he is considered one hot Grandpa!

Sister Madonna Bruder

She is an 86 year old nun who still competes regularly in Ironman competitions!

George and Doreen Kirby

These two are the world’s oldest newlyweds according to Guiness World Record books.  They were 103 and 91 respectively.

Leonid Hurwicz

Lots of scientists and doctors stay active well into what is considered old age.  Leonid won the Nobel prize in Economics at the age of 90.  I also read about a Japanese doctor who still practiced at the age of 102!

Fred Mack

Fred celebrated his 100th birthday by skydiving.  His first jump was at 95, and his second at 100!

Nelson Mandela

Who can forget this one.  After spending 27 years in prison he became the president of South Africa at the age of 76.

Minoro Saito

He kept busy in his retirement years by sailing around the world at the age of 77.

John Glenn

He is famous for going to space as an astronaut at the age of 77.

Fauja Singh

Fauja ran in the Mumbai marathon at the age of 104.  I have an uncle who is a retired Navy fighter pilot.  He was running marathons in his 80s.  He recently turned 90 and I’ll have to tell him he is just getting warmed up!

This list could go on and on.  I guess the point is age is only a number and maybe we should just ignore it, within reason, and do whatever we still have the desire to do.

Car Stories – Part Three

Beautiful Road
Image by Adam Derewecki from Pixabay

Intro

What started out as just a quick trip down memory lane has turned into a series of posts.  Our car stories do have a way of telling our life stories.  So much revolves around our cars, from family trips, to what car we drove to the hospital for the birth of our kids.  If you’re even a little bit of a car buff then the stories have even more meaning.  We picked a car for certain reasons and features at the time and it is fun to remember.

1991 Dodge Conversion Van

I had always wanted to take a trip in a van.  Back in my youth a buddy and I had plans to take a cross country trip that never materialized.  My wife and I had taken a number of cross country trips in cars but never in a conversion van.  This particular van was silver, and a low top to save a little money.  It was beautiful!  Our first trip was from Philadelphia to Glacier National Park, in Montana.  My wife was pregnant.  Like all our trips we camped to save money.  But after all our tent camping trips the van, with its built in bed seemed like real luxury.  And with Glacier’s bears we were glad for the hard side.

1996 Dodge Conversion Van

In 1996 we upgraded to a really fancy Dodge Conversion van.  It was gorgeous!  White and a pretty green hi-top.  It had thick woodwork and luxury everything.  We really couldn’t afford it but bought it anyway.  No idea how we were approved for the loan.

What I remember most about that van was a trip to Utah with my 5 year old son.  The van had a TV and VCR (a big deal at the time!)  My son watched “How the West was Fun” with the Olsen twins over and over all across the country.  I think I memorized the words from listening to it (we eventually hooked up the headphones for him.)

1999 Mitsubishi Eclipse

The Eclipse was a second car, and a treat for Dad.  This was during the Dot-Com boom and we had a little extra money so we leased the Eclipse.  It was a fun sporty little car.  I got a stick shift, and it was peppy and still great on gas.

2002 Misubishi Montero

When the Eclipse lease was up we got a Mitsubishi Montero.  My wife loved it.  Great SUV except for the turning radius, which was huge, to the point where getting into a parking spot required planning.  It was rock solid however, and probably saved my wife when a hit and run driver plowed into my wife one morning on the way to her job.

2003 Dodge MiniVan

This minivan ended up being a replacement for the conversion van, which by this time had gone through two transmissions.  The conversion van looked great but was getting expensive to maintain.

This minivan was fairly plain, but boy was it practical.  We could fit two kayaks in that thing, with the rear door still closing.  Amazingly I think it had more usable space than the much bigger conversion van.

1994 Ford Taurus

This was after the dot com bust and money was very tight, but we needed a second car.  I picked it up for $2500 with about 90,000 miles on it.  Ended up fixing a lot of things on it, including brakes, a new radiator, and a weird electrical problem.  This wasn’t all bad because I did all the work myself, with my teenage son helping.  So my son also learned something about working on cars which is always a good skill to have.  After keeping it for about 5 years and another 40,000 miles we sold it for $2200!

2010 Mitsubishi Lancer

The Lancer was a small sporty compact from Mitsubishi.  It was fun to drive and we liked it a lot.  We let my son use it to commute to college and unfortunately he had an accident that totaled it.  It was a close call.  He was on a date and skidded on some gravel and hit a telephone pole,  hitting on the passenger side, but avoiding a full frontal crash.  His date ended up with fairly minor injuries.

This takes us to the second decade of the 2000s.  We’ll save that decade for another post in the series.

Again, if you have interesting car stories please share!