Car Stories – Part Three

Beautiful Road
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Intro

What started out as just a quick trip down memory lane has turned into a series of posts.  Our car stories do have a way of telling our life stories.  So much revolves around our cars, from family trips, to what car we drove to the hospital for the birth of our kids.  If you’re even a little bit of a car buff then the stories have even more meaning.  We picked a car for certain reasons and features at the time and it is fun to remember.

1991 Dodge Conversion Van

I had always wanted to take a trip in a van.  Back in my youth a buddy and I had plans to take a cross country trip that never materialized.  My wife and I had taken a number of cross country trips in cars but never in a conversion van.  This particular van was silver, and a low top to save a little money.  It was beautiful!  Our first trip was from Philadelphia to Glacier National Park, in Montana.  My wife was pregnant.  Like all our trips we camped to save money.  But after all our tent camping trips the van, with its built in bed seemed like real luxury.  And with Glacier’s bears we were glad for the hard side.

1996 Dodge Conversion Van

In 1996 we upgraded to a really fancy Dodge Conversion van.  It was gorgeous!  White and a pretty green hi-top.  It had thick woodwork and luxury everything.  We really couldn’t afford it but bought it anyway.  No idea how we were approved for the loan.

What I remember most about that van was a trip to Utah with my 5 year old son.  The van had a TV and VCR (a big deal at the time!)  My son watched “How the West was Fun” with the Olsen twins over and over all across the country.  I think I memorized the words from listening to it (we eventually hooked up the headphones for him.)

1999 Mitsubishi Eclipse

The Eclipse was a second car, and a treat for Dad.  This was during the Dot-Com boom and we had a little extra money so we leased the Eclipse.  It was a fun sporty little car.  I got a stick shift, and it was peppy and still great on gas.

2002 Misubishi Montero

When the Eclipse lease was up we got a Mitsubishi Montero.  My wife loved it.  Great SUV except for the turning radius, which was huge, to the point where getting into a parking spot required planning.  It was rock solid however, and probably saved my wife when a hit and run driver plowed into my wife one morning on the way to her job.

2003 Dodge MiniVan

This minivan ended up being a replacement for the conversion van, which by this time had gone through two transmissions.  The conversion van looked great but was getting expensive to maintain.

This minivan was fairly plain, but boy was it practical.  We could fit two kayaks in that thing, with the rear door still closing.  Amazingly I think it had more usable space than the much bigger conversion van.

1994 Ford Taurus

This was after the dot com bust and money was very tight, but we needed a second car.  I picked it up for $2500 with about 90,000 miles on it.  Ended up fixing a lot of things on it, including brakes, a new radiator, and a weird electrical problem.  This wasn’t all bad because I did all the work myself, with my teenage son helping.  So my son also learned something about working on cars which is always a good skill to have.  After keeping it for about 5 years and another 40,000 miles we sold it for $2200!

2010 Mitsubishi Lancer

The Lancer was a small sporty compact from Mitsubishi.  It was fun to drive and we liked it a lot.  We let my son use it to commute to college and unfortunately he had an accident that totaled it.  It was a close call.  He was on a date and skidded on some gravel and hit a telephone pole,  hitting on the passenger side, but avoiding a full frontal crash.  His date ended up with fairly minor injuries.

This takes us to the second decade of the 2000s.  We’ll save that decade for another post in the series.

Again, if you have interesting car stories please share!

Being Crazy At 70, 80, and Beyond

Seniors at Beach Viewing Ocean
Photo by Vidar Nordli-Mathisen on Unsplash

I’m not 70 yet, but I’m close enough to start thinking about it.  And I really don’t want to think life gets boring at 70 and beyond.  As long as we’re alive and kicking we want life to be interesting and productive.

We all admire those older folks that do things that are a little uncommon for their age.  Think about the 90 year old that gets their college degree.  Or the famous artist that didn’t start until her mid 70s.  I just read about an 80 year old that still hikes up and down mountains on a daily basis.  Some even have the audacity to start a business!

So What is Crazy Anyway?

While things are slowly changing, being crazy just means doing things the world doesn’t expect at your age.  It is still assumed that you shouldn’t do certain things beyond some predefined age.  Just tell someone you have retired.  They assume you mean you have hit the stop button.  No more work.  No more adventure.  No more purpose or productivity.

Crazy is Good

I’d like to propose that crazy is good!  If you retire it just means you are moving to a new phase in life.  You can do most anything you want.  Yes, you may be slowing a bit physically, but you more than make up for it in wisdom.  And you have seen it all before, so you can be a little eccentric, a little different, and yes, a little crazy!

Crazy is Healthy

Crazy keeps your brain sharp.  Most evidence now points to a “use it or lose it” reality as we age.  This is especially true for your brain health.  And physically, while you can’t do the same things at 80 that you did at 20, you probably can do more than you think.  You see examples every day.  I have an uncle that ran marathons well into his 80s.  He did admit that around 85 he did start doing more walking than running!

The World Needs Your Craziness

There are so many examples of older folks making major contributions to society.  Many doctors practice until a very advanced age.  I read about one Japanese doctor that still practices every day despite being over 100.  Writers and artists often do some of their best work after 80.  And while you can argue about politicians making contributions to society, many stay active well into their 80s.  Look at Jimmy Carter and his work with Habitat for Humanity.

So How Can You Be Crazy?

You don’t have to run marathons or save the world to be a little crazy (although who knows what is possible until you try!)  Here are some ideas to get you thinking.

Keep Moving

This one helps make everything else more possible.  Move however you can.  Walk, swim, bicycle, or run as you are able

Be the oldest walking in a marathon or start a group of older gym rats!  Anybody up for softball or touch football where the only requirement is being over 70?

Learn Stuff

There are so many opportunities to learn stuff these days.  Many colleges allow seniors to attend classes for free or low cost.  And the Internet has near infinite possibilities.

Teach Stuff

You know a lot.  Give others the benefit of that knowledge.  You can teach formal classes or maybe make use of a more informal setting like a community center.  You can even learn to create your own online courses. 

Go Places

Go more places than you ever thought possible.  Go somewhere unusual or use an alternative means of transportation.  If you have always driven places try taking the train, a plane or even the bus.  If you fancy foreign travel go somewhere unusual, or spend a little more time than the average tourist.

Read Voraciously

Read, read, read.  It will keep you sharp and make you a more interesting person to be around.  It will give you ideas and help keep your brain sharp. Read what others have done in their “older” years.

Start a Blog

Everyone has a story to tell.  A blog makes it possible.  And even if few people read what you write it is good for you personally.

Write Articles and Books

I cannot overemphasize how helpful writing has been to me.  It can be for you too so give a try.

How will you be just a little crazy?

Common Retirement Goals

Live Your Dreams BlackboardIf your idea of retirement was sitting in the easy chair and watching TV twelve hours a day you may have a problem. Not that there is anything wrong with making some use of that easy chair but too much can lead to boredom and assorted health problems. There is even evidence that the “easy chair” lifestyle can lead to a decreased life span!

We need goals, and retirement doesn’t mean the goals stop. Some may prefer the term “themes” as goals have a way of adding stress. Let’s take a closer look at some common retirement “themes” to get your brain thinking.

Travel the world

This one may literally mean world travel. Or it might mean taking some of your newly found free time to discover the world around you, even in your own town.

Write a book

Lots of people have this one. Maybe you should start with some articles or a blog and work your way up to a book. The Internet and newer self-publishing options make writing a book more possible than ever before.

Take a class

For some this may mean going back to college. But it can also mean simply taking a class on some subject that interests you. There are both online and offline options.

Teach a class

Why not teach a class on some topic that you know well and have an interest. Again there are online and offline options and even the possibility to earn a little income.

Take up a new hobby

There are thousands of possibilities. Many are free or low cost. The internet makes it easy to connect with others that share the same interest.

Spend more time with kids / grandkids

This is certainly a common one. Now finds ways to really do it! Make it fun for them so time with you becomes an exciting adventure rather than a duty.

Hike the Appalachian Trail

Oh yeah, many of us have thought of this one and some may even do it. (Those on the west coast of the US may think of the PCT.) This doesn’t have to be an all or nothing proposition. You can start with short day hikes and work your way up as your abilities improve.

Fix up an old car

This is a common one for men. It doesn’t have to be a 100K muscle car. There are plenty of 20 year old “cool” cars that you can fix up like new!

Cruise around the world

This is another one that some will really do. Others can save up for a more attainable cruise of a shorter duration. Then again there are those of us that consider a cruise to be taking out a kayak on a local lake on a bright sunny day.

Move to the country (or the city)

I think many that live in the city want to move to the country and many that live in the country want to try an apartment in the city. Go figure! My suggestion is to try and find a way to try the lifestyle on for size before you fully commit.

Volunteer

For some this means the Peace Corp (in the US.) But there are plenty of great causes out there that are just dying for some volunteer help. This might be just occasional or a full time job without pay!

Exercise more

This is one that should be on everybody’s list. So if it isn’t add it and find something that works for you.

Buy a motorhome

Who can resist the urge to spend a half million dollars and cruise down the highway in your luxury rancher on wheels? Again, some will do just that and many will do a more measured variation, like a small travel trailer or just some old fashioned tent camping.

Learn to play a musical instrument

Another common one and some of us will even stick with it. But just because we may give up doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try. You may even find the passion of your life!

Move to somewhere warm

Another case of those in a cold climate want to move somewhere warm and those in warm climates say they miss the seasons. Again my suggestion is to try to find a way to try your new locale on for size. Some will even prefer a “snowbird” approach where they move south for the winter.

Hopefully this article has given you some food for thought.

Until next time…