10 Things I Learned About Retirement

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I originally wrote this article a couple years ago but never published it.  I learned a lot in the last couple years so here is the updated version.

I’ve been studying this whole retirement idea for a few years now.  I’ve learned a lot both generally and personally.  I wanted to share some tidbits.  Most of these little nuggets deserve their own article or even a series of articles!

Don’t Rush to Collect Social Security

The best time to start collecting Social Security will vary with your personal situation, but for many the longer you wait the better.  This is because the amount you receive increases considerably with each year that you wait (up until age 70.)  Personally it seems right to wait till at least what SS calls “Full Retirement Age” if possible.  This is an important decision so get all the advise you can.

Retirement is Going to, as Much as Going Away

For most of my life I considered retirement to be that wonderous time when I could finally quit my job and relax.  Now I look at it as more of a “transition” to a new phase with all kinds of new opportunities.

Have a Plan Before You Retire

It’s obvious that you need a financial plan before you retire.  What’s not so obvious is you need a plan for what you are going to do with yourself.  And it should be more detailed than “travel more.”  It is unlikely you are going to be traveling 365 days a year, no matter your financial situation.  What are you going to do with the rest of your time?

My own personal experience is that you should have a Plan B.  I am writing this in the fall of 2020 and “retired” into the middle of a pandemic on 5/1/20.  My Plan B has involved writing, websites and other interests.  And I learned over the past few years that I don’t really want to retire in the traditional sense anyway!

Make a Plan if You are Already Retired

Did you concentrate on mostly the financial aspects of retirement before you retired?  It’s not too late – time to start planning all those other things – like what are you going to do with yourself!  I also think it is good to periodically review those plans as things may change after you gain some retirement experience.  Browsing through this blog may give you some ideas!

Who Says You Should Stop Working?

Working will be part of many retiree’s plans.  And this isn’t just for financial reasons, although it certainly helps there too!  Working keeps your mind sharp and has many social benefits.  It keeps you connected to the real world.  Of course, your retirement work doesn’t have to be the same thing you did before, it doesn’t have to be full time, and it might not even pay well – think rewarding volunteer work if you don’t need the income.

How Many Sources of Income do You Have?

This is one where retirement has really changed.  My Dad had Social Security and a pension, along with company health benefits for most of his retirement.  Now we need to consider Social Security, working, retirement savings, stock dividends, and assorted other income sources to make the retirement puzzle work.  And who knows what will happen with health care!

Move Your Butt!

This is a biggie.  We need to keep moving, both physically and mentally.  And this needs to continue regardless of our age.  Without decent health all the other retirement ideas become much more difficult.

Eat Smart but Don’t Go Crazy

I’m not a health professional but I think a little common sense goes a long way here.  Most of us know what we should be eating, just like we know we should be exercising.  However, if you want that weekly ice cream cone go for it!  Just don’t make it six a day!

Plan How to Keep People in Your Life

I’m learning more and more about this one.  Some of us are blessed with big happy families and many friends.  Others have small families that may or may not get along and rely on work associations for much of their social contact.  You need to make a conscience effort to figure out how to keep people in your life.  This might involve clubs, volunteering, or part time work.

Don’t Wait to Do Stuff, Like Travel

With so much emphasis put on the financial aspects of retirement there might be a tendency to be almost too frugal in the early years of retirement.  While this might be necessary for some, try to make some of the things you really wanted to do, like travel, a priority.  You never know, we all know people that finally retired only to have health problems that prevented travel pop up way too soon, and they miss out on some of their life ambitions.

This represents just a few things I’ve learned in my years of retirement research.  I’ll keep updating as I learn more, and feel free to comment with your ideas!

Anything Good From The Pandemic For Retired People?

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First let me explain that I know the COVID pandemic has been devastating for many people, especially for older folks.  Almost everyone knows someone who has suffered because of the virus.  This article is in no way meant to minimize the effects of the pandemic in any way.  I pray for anyone dealing with COVID, and especially for anyone who has lost loved ones.

For the rest of us, let’s be grateful and look at some of the little ways our lives may have improved as a result of changes made necessary by the pandemic.

Senior Hours

I love senior hours and take advantage of them whenever I can.  Of course, those 6:00AM grocery runs are tough!

Less Traffic

When you do venture out there is a little less traffic.  That is good for the nerves and saves a little time in your day. 

You Might Be Saving Money

Less traffic saves money on gas and wear and tear on your car.  You are not eating out as much at restaurants and that can save a ton.  Even if you are using take out it is usually less expensive than sit down dining.

You Might Be Eating Better

In theory if you are eating more at home you might be eating more healthy meals.  This isn’t guaranteed of course but most homemade meals are better for you than fast food.  You might even get better at cooking which could be healthier long after the pandemic is over.

People Care A Little More, Or At Least Ask How You Are Doing

It’s weird, I’ve noticed people are generally more tense, but maybe a little more thoughtful of others.  I see this in little ways.  People are a little friendlier to cashiers in the store.  They say thank you to the delivery person.  On Zoom calls everyone asks how everyone is doing and if their families are healthy.  In this crazy political climate this is nice to see (I’m writing this in October, 2020.)  Hopefully this is another trend that will continue after the pandemic is long gone!

Good ForThe Environment

A little less driving means a little less pollution.  National and state parks are not as busy which is good for the animals and creates less strain on their ecosystem.  And when people do go to the parks, I think they appreciate them more.  In fact, during this pandemic I think we are all appreciating things we used to take for granted just a little more.

You Get More Reading Done

More time at home means more time for reading.  Yes, I know some people are just glued to the TV, but that gets old eventually.  Then people that haven’t picked up a book in a while might give it a try.  And avid readers just have a little more time to enjoy their reading habit.

You Are Really Learning How To Use Your Computer

Your computer is fast becoming central to communicating with the world.  This was already happening, but the pandemic has accelerated it.

More Remote Jobs

Remote jobs are easier for retired people that want to continue working.  And age discrimination is a little less of a problem.

You Try New Hobbies

The media has been touting the virtues of hobbies to help people cope.  Some are listening and it is good for us.  In my case I’ve always had the problem of too many interests, but I’ve gotten back to some that I drifted away from over the years.

More Exercise – At Home Or Outside

The media also has encouraged people to exercise more as a way to relieve stress.  I think they are listening.  I see more people outside walking.  Bike sales are way up.  Another trend that hopefully will continue.

You Hear More From The Kids

If you have grown kids you might be hearing from them more often.  Some of this might be out of guilt because they are afraid you might kick the bucket during the pandemic! (Only Kidding!)  But they also have a little more time and I’d like to think we all value our families a little more.

I pray for all of you going through the pandemic.  If you are fortunate enough to not be touched personally let’s all make the best of it!

How to Become a Virtual Assistant

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Becoming a Virtual Assistant can be a great way to earn income while learning a variety of useful skills.  It can be a great side hustle or morph into a full-time business, if that is what you are looking for.  It works great for anyone that wants to work online from home, including retired people, students, and almost anyone else.

Virtual Assistants first became popular back when small online business owners figured out they could hire assistants offshore for a fraction of what it costs to hire an employee locally.  Virtual assistants could theoretically handle any task that could be done via the phone and Internet.

Business owners soon found that they needed a variety of virtual assistants, both offshore and onshore.  It depended on the tasks needed, the individual, and the needed interaction with others.

Good Virtual Assistants work hand in hand with the business owner or manager.  They are proficient with office applications, searching and using the internet, and accomplishing all kinds of tasks via the Internet and phone for their client.  There are lots of articles out there about how to find a good Virtual Assistant.  Look at these as a guide to setting up your own VA business.

Like many businesses the key here is getting your first few clients and then if you are good you will live off referrals.  You may want to do some small jobs for free or at low rates to get to know a potential client.  Just make sure they know those are not your regular rates!

What Services Do Virtual Assistants Provide?

Here is just a small sampling:

  • Customer Service
  • Email Assistance
  • Research
  • Website Design
  • Website Maintenance
  • Travel Arrangements
  • Social Media Assistance
  • Online Forum and Community Assistance
  • Proofreading
  • Editing
  • Various Kinds of Writing
  • Spreadsheet and Accounting Support
  • Data Entry
  • Sales Assistance
  • Dozens More…

What Skills Do I Need to Learn?

You may already have many of the skills you need, and you can learn the rest.  There are online Virtual Assistant courses that might make sense.  Individual skills can be learned with inexpensive online courses.  My current favorite is Udemy, where many courses go on sale for about $10.

Pay special attention to online business-related skills.  Learn the basics of website creation, online sales, online marketing, and social media.

How Do I get Started?

Figure out what you can offer.  What are your current skills?  What can you learn quickly?

Set up your business.  Nothing fancy is needed but form a Proprietorship or LLC (for asset protection.)  Set up a separate business checking account and get some business cards.  Get some legal advice if needed. (I’m not a legal or accounting professional so this article shouldn’t be considered a source of that level of advice.)

Set up a website.  It’s not that hard and even a basic one makes you look much more professional.

Decide how to market yourself to get your first clients.  Online services like Upwork or Fiverr can help you get your first clients, although the jobs are usually low paying.  You may want to contact local small businesses and tell them what you offer.  Use Email, phone or even in person visits.

The nice thing is that as you gain more clients and learn more advanced skills your rates can keep increasing.  And the increases can be much greater than the 3% annual raise at a normal job.

Becoming a virtual assistant can lead into all kinds of things as you learn new skills.  Eventually you may be the one hiring virtual assistants!